12 ‘Normal’ Activities Men Get Away With, But Women Face Backlash When They Do Them

In a society that often imposes double standards, there are numerous everyday activities that men can perform without a second thought, yet women face undue criticism and backlash when they do the same. This article highlights 12 such “normal” activities, shedding light on the persistent gender biases that still pervade our daily lives.

1. Driving 18 Wheelers

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Semis or 18-wheelers are commonly driven by a man. It can raise people’s eyebrows if they see women driving semis. One commentator stated that she faces many questions about driving a truck. People asked her where the main driver was, meaning the male driver.

2. Going Swimming Topless

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It is okay for guys to wear shorts to the swimming pool on a sunny day. But on the same sunny day and in the same pool, women have to wear a top with shorts. Otherwise, the attempt of women to go outside topless just like men can raise a state of commotion (at least in the U.S.).

3. Getting Old

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It is simple to claim that age is just a number. But practically, it can not be followed. Age has a different meaning for both genders. For males aging means getting mature and strong. But in the case of females,  it seems many limitations get imposed on them as they age. One commenter said, “Mid-30s here and I’ve felt “too old to matter” for a decade now. It has led to me not taking chances or opportunities like going back to school to finish a degree, or some other things in my personal life, which is ridiculous.”

4. Farting in Public

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It could be quite ridiculous, but farting men in public is not a big deal. But if a female farts by mistake, people respond weirdly. One female viewer mentioned her bad experience when she accidentally farted in a shop; everyone looked back at her and bashed her.

5. Keeping Their Last Name After Marriage

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When a couple binds themselves in the relation of marriage, then why does only a female have to change her name? A question asked by a respondent in the comments. Men do not change their names, and it is okay, but if a woman refuses to make this change, people can respond weirdly. 

6. Having Body Hair

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Human body hair is a natural thing that is given to males and females without discrimination. But only women’s body hair is considered gross and needs to be removed. Only females are suggested to shave their bodies. Many female respondents have admitted that they have been bullied at a very young age due to body hair.

7. Asking Someone to ‘Marry Me’

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The world trend says a man can ask a woman to marry him. And it is considered a man’s pride to like her, propose to her, and win her. If a woman dares to approach a man, she is considered fake and greedy. And if, in any case, this proposal works, people will recall the shame of a girl who approaches a boy to accept her.

8. Eating Large Portions of Food

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In our society, girls are supposed to eat less and eat nice. Taking a large portion of one’s plate is enough to get bullying comments on her diet or body figure. In the case of men, it is assumed that they have to eat more because they are men. If a man orders a large steak or large burger, no one will bat an eye.

9. Dealing With Grief

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It is a very common factor to judge the female gender. If a man is not crying during grief or a mishap, he is considered a strong man with strong control over his nerves. But if a girl is dealing with a situation similarly, such as a death, she is considered cold, insensitive, and heartless if she is not crying.

10. ‘Masculine’ Interests

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Men tend to have interests in cars and their modifications, video games, and martial arts. But when a girl shows interest in the same things, she is questioned by saying this is not your field. One viewer shared that she even heard she was greedy and wanted the guy with luxury cars, just because she is interested in cars!

11. Caring About Appearance

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Men can go outside without getting ready. It is okay for him to spend days without shaving. He can wear messy clothes. But a female must be conscious of her appearance before leaving the house. Otherwise, people will likely judge her appearance. 

12. Being Assertive

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Men can be assertive. It shows they are skilled, adept, and have good skills to manage things. But if a woman is assertive many negative comments arise about her. Assertive women are seen as dominating and intimidating and want to control everything.

Source: Reddit

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